Comments on: Work Style

By: 404momi

404momi — Tue, 07 Jul 2009 10:23:03 +0000

I dont see anything funny about your style. They might be laughing in your face – but I bet they are taking notes behind your back secretly wishing they too could pull it off.

By: Kate

Kate — Fri, 27 Feb 2009 16:42:22 +0000

I usually just hold my head high and do my thing. The world needs people who stand out and are brave enough to do so.

By: Tamia

Tamia — Fri, 27 Feb 2009 01:51:46 +0000

Thanks, Monica! I’m jealous…I’ve been trying to grow taller for 10+ years now, lucky girl!

By: Monica

Monica — Thu, 26 Feb 2009 21:41:07 +0000

I didn’t know what to put for a website since I have none, lest a facebook account should count?

I have to agree with Claudia and say that lately I to have found myself holding back just a “smidge” when it comes to being fashionably fabulous! *sighs.

The stares does at times make you feel uncomfortable…but now looking back on it I think they just gave those stares cause in reality they envied the fact that fashion-forward ladies (such as yourselves;)), have the creative flair and BALLS(hihi…) to WORK IT!!!

Tamia I came across your blog site at random and am in love with the fact that you have a similar style sense/taste…I have been constantly drooling over the shoes and the outfit ensembles are wicked!

Cheers,
M

P.S
Just for kicks…I’m a 5ft 11′ chick whose also crazy in love with heels; six-inchers are always wayyyy more exciting then boring flats!:P

Really luv the site;)

By: Tamia

Tamia — Thu, 19 Feb 2009 23:07:50 +0000

Thanks, Claudine! Sometimes it’s difficult to deal with other people’s less-than-positive “feedback” (trust me, I’ve gotten more WTF looks than I’d like to count) but dressing for yourself and being comfortable in your own skin more than makes up for it. I’ve decided I kind of like the crazy stares…
Plus, you know she’ll be wearing your castoffs next year, anyway!

By: Claudine

Claudine — Thu, 19 Feb 2009 15:33:26 +0000

When I read this it totally hit a chord with me, there are often times when I dress down to the point that now when I shop I chicken out on stuff. My sister-in-law who often comments (on how she doesn’t like what I wear) that I should just “own it”. Your blog has inspired me on many levels ( to go “thrifting” and to just be myself) I love checking to see what you put together.

By: Tamia

Tamia — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 23:21:04 +0000

I’ve always loved that Marianne Williamson quote. Thanks for reminding me of my right–no, my duty–to be as me as possible!

By: Tamia

Tamia — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 23:14:21 +0000

Don’t even get me started on working at Old Navy. I worked there for a few months in college and really disliked it. Of course, that was back when they had “uniforms”–a t-shirt and whatever bottoms you wanted. Everyone looked like a slightly dysfunctional clone!

By: Alana

Alana — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 19:05:13 +0000

A former coworker and I just talked about this. She dressed cute and hated dressing down to fit in w/ our slubby coworkers.

I used to work at Old Navy and I wanted to look cute like anybody else. Occasionally I would step away from my comfy outfits of a hooodie/jeans/sneaks and spruce it up a bit. Whenever I did I felt out of place cuz my coworkers looked so slumpy in thier tshirts and jeans. It wasn’t like a H&M or Urban outfitters where the employees are stylish. I had to get out of there becuz I wanted to work in a retail env’t with other stylish 20somethings.

By: Marian

Marian — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 02:43:31 +0000

You look fabulous dear in that work style outfit!

If today i want to wear a paper bag,rock this style or that or even none at all I do it,somehow and someway along the way I realised that you can only please one person in life all the time, and thats yourself.

I say do you at work girl!
one does not have to wear an ugly boxy suit with quote unquote ugly shoes ;o) to be professional.those silly rules only exist so people can be boring and not cross any lines. Once you look professional and sharp that all that counts.

oH also one thing about me is I like it when folk dont get my style or whatever. tells me im doing something right.If everyone (and that includes all those boring as time folk) that would mean my style is average, pretty boring,uncreative.

in the words of Marianne williamson-

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”

big kiss,
Marian